Woman writing in a birthday card

When a special someone’s birthday rolls around, finding the perfect birthday gift can be a challenging but rewarding task. But knowing what to write in a birthday card can sometimes feel even more daunting than picking out the gift itself. If you’re feeling stuck on what to write, read on to learn how to fill that card with words that resonate for your dad, mom, friend, or someone special in your life.

What to write in a birthday card: General tips

When you’re unsure of what to write in a birthday card, it’s often best to return to the basics. A straightforward “Happy Birthday” is always a classic starting point. To make it more personal, follow it up with well wishes for the year ahead. For example:

  • “May your year be filled with joy and new opportunities.” 
  • “Hope your birthday marks the start of a year full of new adventures.” 
  • “May you achieve all your dreams in the coming year.” 
  • “Wishing you a year as extraordinary as you are.” 
  • “May the year ahead be as amazing as you are.” 

What to write in a birthday card for dad

dad reading birthday card

When it comes to dads, a heartfelt message often goes a long way. Consider sharing a memorable experience you’ve had together or expressing gratitude for his unwavering support. A simple “Happy Birthday, Dad. Thanks for always being there for me” can be incredibly touching. If you’re also gifting your dad something special, consider: 

  • “Happy Birthday, Dad! This gift is just a small token of the love and gratitude I feel for you every day.” 
  • “Wishing you a fantastic year ahead, Dad. I hope this gift adds a little joy to your special day.” 
  • “To the world’s best dad, Happy Birthday! Can’t wait to see you put this gift to good use.” 
  • “Happy Birthday, Dad! This gift can’t repay you for all you’ve done, but I hope it brings a smile to your face.” 

What to write in mom’s birthday card

Moms appreciate a sincere message. You might want to acknowledge her love, sacrifices, and the lessons she’s imparted. Consider “Happy Birthday, Mom. Your love has shaped me in lasting ways.” If you’ve found the perfect gift for your mom to go along with a card, one of the following suggestions can complement your touching present:

  • “Happy Birthday, Mom! I hope this gift brings you as much happiness as you’ve given me.” 
  • “Wishing you a day full of love and joy, Mom. May this gift add a sparkle to your special day.” 
  • “To the most important woman in my life, Happy Birthday! I can’t wait to see you enjoy your new gift.” 
  • “Happy Birthday, Mom! This gift is a small way to say thank you for all the unconditional love you’ve showered upon me.” 
  • “Another year of being fabulous! Happy Birthday, Mom! Hope this gift adds a little extra shine to your day.” 

What to write in a friend’s birthday card

friend reading birthday card

For a close friend, inside jokes or heartfelt sentiments can make your message stand out. “Happy birthday to the one who’s been there through thick and thin!” If you’re including a card with a special birthday gift, you can make the message extra special by connecting it with the present. Here are five lines you can consider: 

  • “Happy Birthday! This gift is as awesome as our friendship—almost!” 
  • “Wishing you a day as fabulous as you are. Hope this gift adds a little extra sparkle to your special day!” 
  • “Happy Birthday, my partner in crime! Can’t wait to see the adventures this gift will bring us.”
  • “To one of my favourite people, Happy Birthday! Hope this gift makes your day a little brighter.” 
  • “Happy Birthday! May this gift be the cherry on top of a fantastic year ahead.”

What to write in a card for those far away

If the birthday person is far away, your words can help bridge the distance. Consider gifting something that helps you stay connected and include a message about how much you miss them and look forward to seeing them again:

  • “Happy Birthday! May this gift keep us connected, no matter the miles between us.” 
  • “Wishing you a day full of love and connection. This gift is a small step towards making that happen every day.” 
  • “Happy Birthday! In a world full of so many people, it’s nice to stay close to the ones who matter. Hope this helps!” 
  • “To one of the most important people in my life, Happy Birthday! This gift is to ensure we never miss a moment together.” 
  • “Happy Birthday! May this gift bring us closer in a world that sometimes feels too big.” 

What to write in a funny birthday card

funny birthday card

Humour can be a great addition to a birthday card, provided you know the recipient’s taste well. A joke or a funny anecdote that’s personal and appropriate can add a unique touch. Just make sure the humour aligns with the person’s sense of fun. Jokes in birthday cards can be an excellent ice-breaker, especially when accompanied by a fun birthday gift. Here are a few suggestions to get you started: 

  • “Happy Birthday! You’re not getting older, you’re just leveling up.” 
  • “You know you’re getting old when the candles cost more than the cake. Happy Birthday!” 
  • “Happy Birthday! Let’s eat cake and pretend you’re not aging.” 
  • “Congratulations on surviving another year. Your reward? More adulting!” 
  • “Happy Birthday! May your Facebook wall be filled with messages from people you never talk to.”

What to write alongside a gift card 

Sometimes, you might find choosing the right physical gift is too challenging. In such cases, a gift card can be a suitable addition or alternative. Gifting a gift card offers the recipient the freedom to choose what they want, but it’s always nice to add a personal touch with a thoughtful message with the card. Here are some suggestions:

  • “Happy Birthday! Treat yourself to something special with this gift card. You deserve it!” 
  • “Wishing you a fantastic birthday! This gift card is just a small way to say, ‘Choose what makes you happy!'” 
  • “Hope your birthday is as amazing as you are! This gift card is your ticket to a little birthday indulgence.” 
  • “Happy Birthday! May this gift card bring you one step closer to something you’ve been eyeing for a while.” 
  • “Here’s to a year full of possibilities! Use this gift card to kickstart your adventures or satisfy a little craving.”

Make their day special with words that will make them smile

Choosing the right words for a birthday card can often feel like a daunting task. Whether you’re writing for your parents, adding a dash of humor, or focusing on friends, the key is to make it personal and heartfelt. Your words have the power to elevate a simple card into a cherished memory, making the celebration even more special. From general wishes to gift-specific messages, this article has hopefully offered you the inspiration you need to craft the perfect birthday note. Happy writing!


This article was drafted using AI technology and then reviewed, fact-checked, and revised by a member of our editorial team.

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